You love each of your bridesmaids, but that does not automatically make these women BFFs with each other. "It's really important for members of the bridal party to get along because they would spend so much time with each other in the months before the wedding," said Kelly Heyn, owner SociaLife Event Planning in New Jersey.
Not only will 'helpers working alongside one another to plan a bridal shower and bachelorette party you are, they will be side-by-side to help you with the responsibility of the wedding day, Heyn show. "If they do not know each other or get along with very well," he said, "it could cause problems for the rest of the participants of the wedding and add unexpected stress for the bride."
Host activity outside of marriage.
Your bridal party may not be able to bond under the pressure of planning the bridal shower. "Introducing the bridal party in an activity outside of marriage will help them bond in a more natural and comfortable setting," said Heyn. "Consider hosting lunch or stay in an ancient house to have the girls know each other and become friends on their own, without it feeling forced because of a wedding."
Ask for help the bridal party with a DIY project.
"Every wedding has a boring project that the bride really will need some extra hands," said Heyn. And time spent working through tedious tasks - think: the field wedding invitations, packaging bag support, and creating personal decorations - is "the right time to ask your bridal party for help," said Heyn. "Bond girl most when they sit down and talk to each other. Add a glass of wine and some puffy paint, and the conversation will start flowing."
Get social in social media.
If 'helper you live in separate countries, in-person interaction will be limited. In this case, "the best way to keep everyone in the loop is to incorporate social media into your wedding planning," said Heyn. "Set up a personal Facebook page, and invite each member to join so they can share ideas wedding. Ask your maid of honor to keep everyone including by asking for feedback and sharing of responsibilities."
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